Course Description

No need to do these in order, trust your gut and go for whichever makes the most sense for you right now!

Seven Easy Steps To Make “The Talks” Rock

In the very first section you’ll build a foundation for amazing talks!


  • How you are the most influential and important part of these conversations
  • How to make the talks a natural part of your family life
  • How to make the conversations reflect your family values

And much more!

The Magic Sex Talks Formula

You’ll be ready to learn my simple formula so you keep the talks short, sweet and age appropriate.


  • My super-simple, practically magic sex talks formula
  • How to talk so your conversations are truly effective
  • An easy way to remember which area to focus on as your kids age

And a few other helpful tips!

Communication Tips & Scripts

Finally, you will be ready to learn the best ways to communicate with your kids!


  • The top three kid-researched strategies for having sex talks
  • How to stall before answering a doozy of a question (yay!)
  • Tips for keeping your kids safer from sexual abuse

And some other tricks to become your kids' most trusted resource!

What They Need to Know By When - The Birds & Bees from Preschool to Middle School 

They should know EVERYTHING by the time they start middle school.

This video explains what "everything" means - in detail:

  • How to avoid giving them too much information
  • What they need to know from birth to four; five to eight; and nine to twelve
  • How to avoid “loss of innocence” moments on the playground
  • How to keep them calm and connected while you chat about uncomfortable topics

And a bunch of other important and helpful info!

BONUSES! My Library of Webinars & Videos

Topics include:

  • Poison Porn - Your Kids and Porn (with Jo Langford, MA)
  • Girls & Sexuality: What Parents Need to Know
  • How to Raise Respectful Boys in a Sexualized World
  • Moms & Sons - Dads & Daughters
  • Gender & Sexualities
  • And tons of other topics!

And other helpful bonuses, too! 

"WOW! Because I took Amy's advice and started the sex talks when my girls were very young, I was their trusted resource throughout high school. I never thought I could have such open and honest conversations about sex and intimate relationships and be my girls' trusted and primary resource throughout their tween and teen years.

Amy is the ultimate resource and her style has influenced my parenting in such a positive way. Her answers are always on-point, valid and a lifesaver. It all seems so natural under her tutelage - and I'm a sexual abuse survivor.

Thanks Amy, for bringing a level of trust, openness and understanding to our lives that I didn't even know could exist. I can't even imagine where we'd be without her on-demand expertise."

- Mary Jo, mama of 19 and 23 year old young women

This is for you if...

  • You don't want the internet and porn to be their main sex educator
  • You don't want them to learn about from their friends, or worse, "Uncle Creepy"
  • You want your kids to share your values about sexuality & relationships
  • You want to do a better job at the sex talks then your parents did (a low bar, I know)

Or maybe you are a parent who...

  • Has no idea how or when to start the sex talks
  • Feels embarrassed and uncomfortable talking about these issues
  • Has a history of sexual abuse and needs extra support
  • Growing up had terrible examples of relationships & sexuality
  • Has parents that totally failed at this part of parenting
  • Wants their child to grow up to be a whole, healthy & happy adult!

Or maybe you simply see how sexualized childhood has become and you want your child to be the smartest kid on the playground when it comes their birds & bees info.

As soon as you purchase you get a unique username and password so you can access the entire course and can get started right away!

Sexuality & Parent Educator

Amy Lang, MA

Amy Lang, MA has been a sexual health educator for over 26 years. With her lively, engaging, and down-to-earth style she helps parents become their kid’s go-to birds and bees source. Amy’s books, online solutions center, and podcast show parents that talking about sex doesn’t need to be totally uncomfortable and really can be fun. She also provides childhood sexual development and sexual abuse prevention training for early childhood and youth-serving organizations, such as the US Air Force Youth and Family Services and Boys & Girls clubs. Amy is still married to her first husband and they are getting the hang of parenting their recently launched man-child. She lives in Seattle WA and you can learn more about her work at or

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome to the course!

    • A Little Encouragment to Get You Started!

  • 2

    Chapter 1: Seven Easy Steps To Make “The Talks” Rock

    • Seven Steps Video

    • 7 Steps Handout

    • Seven Steps - Audio Only

  • 3

    Chapter 2: The Magic Sex Talks Formula & How to Use It!

    • Magic Formula Video

    • Magic Formula Handout

    • Flower of Love Handout

    • Magic Formula - Audio Only

  • 4

    Chapter 3: Communication Tips & Scripts

    • Communication Video

    • Communication Tips - Audio Only

    • Sexual Values & Attitudes

    • Questions Young People Ask (and Answers!)

    • Top 10 Questions from Parents (and Answers!)

  • 5

    Chapter 4: What They Need to Know By When - The Birds & Bees from Preschool to Middle School

    • What They Need to Know By When Video

    • What by When Handout

  • 6

    Bonus: Poison Porn - Your Kids and Porn (with Jo Langford, MA)

    • Poison Porn Video

    • 3 Myths About Porn

  • 7

    Bonus: Girls & Sexuality: What Parents Need to Know

    • Girls & Sexuality Video

    • 15 Radical New Rules For Girls’ Sexual Health

  • 8

    Bonus: How to Raise Respectful Boys in a Sexualized World

    • Respectful Boys Video

    • 15 New Rules for Boys Sexual Health

  • 9

    Bonus: Gender & Sexualities

    • Genders Video

    • Teen Girls & Sexual Attraction

  • 10

    Bonus Handouts

    • Birds & Bees for Parents of Preschoolers

    • Birds & Bees For Parents of Teens

    • Birds & Bees for Developmentally Disabled Kids

    • Understanding Sexual Behavior in Children & Teens

    • How To Spot a Pedophile

    • Birds & Bees & Kids Books & Resources List

    • Birds & Bees for Atypical Kids

  • 11

    Bonus: Puberty and Middle School

    • Puberty Prep for PARENTS!

    • VIDEO: Top 5 Things Your Kid Should Know Before Middle School

    • AUDIO: Top 5 Things Your Child Should Know Before Middle School

    • Puberty for Girls & Boys

    • Top 10 Topics for Middle Schoolers

    • The Gender Unicorn

    • Handout for Puberty Prep for Parents

  • 12

    Tough Topics

    • VIDEO: Talking about Abortion

    • HANDOUT: Talking about Abortion

  • 13

    FREE Webinars

    • SLIDES: 5 Must-Have Back-to-School Birds & Bees Talks

    • VIDEO: 5 Must-Have Back-to-School Talks

    • VIDEO: Atypical Kids

    • VIDEO: Sex for Pleasure

    • How "The Talk" Can Keep Neuro-Divergent Kids Safer Online

    • Red Flags and Warning Signs in Adults: How to Spot a Predator

    • Birds & Bees for Atypical Kids

  • 14

    Home School Sex Ed

    • Sex Ed WA State

    • Home School K - 2nd

    • Home School 3rd - 5th

    • Home School Sex Ed Pep Talk (watch this first!)

    • Amaze

    • Scarleteen

    • Birds & Bees & Kids Book Store

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